Nigerian music star Timaya has stirred debate on social media after sharing his blunt opinion about marriage throughout a latest video clip.
Within the quick clip circulating on-line, the singer recommended that some males ought to keep away from marriage totally and as an alternative give attention to having youngsters.
In line with him: “Simply born pikin, the pikin go develop, this marriage factor no dey work.”
His remark rapidly went viral, triggering combined reactions from followers and social media customers who shared differing views about relationships, parenting, and marriage.
Blended Reactions From Social Media Customers
A number of folks disagreed with the singer’s suggestion, warning that avoiding marriage may result in loneliness later in life.
A consumer recognized as Chief & Queen wrote that whereas being a “child daddy” would possibly seem simpler at first, it may have emotional penalties later.
He stated: “Being a ‘child daddy’ might sound simpler within the quick time period, however as soon as the youngsters develop up and depart, he’s left with out a companion or emotional assist. Marriage isn’t excellent, however it will possibly present companionship, shared tasks, and somebody to navigate life’s ups and downs with.
Timaya’s recommendation would possibly get laughs now, however the long-term loneliness danger is actual. That’s the factor folks typically overlook.”
One other commenter, Sir Bull, argued that the issue may be linked to relationship dynamics in Nigeria.
He wrote: “That’s a wedding with Nigerian ladies. Journey out, date Asian ladies and see what love is all about. Date overseas ladies who perceive the idea of affection.”
Okoye additionally shared a balanced view, saying the singer’s opinion simplifies a fancy situation.
He stated: “Timaya’s recommendation is… daring, however oversimplified. Marriage isn’t “damaged” by default it requires communication, dedication, and mutual development.
Encouraging males to only have youngsters with out nurturing a partnership would possibly remedy one factor however create a number of different emotional and {financial} challenges.
In brief: Marriage isn’t useless, nevertheless it does take effort and skipping that effort comes with actual penalties.”
One other consumer, Marvis, recommended that respect and loyalty between companions are key components in making relationships work.
In line with the remark: “Is getting married truly the issue? Companions of these days don’t know how you can give respect to one another, loyalty and assist. Girls are marrying for cash these days not even love.”
